Creating my own destiny

Today’s blog challenge question..Day 2

If you woke up tomorrow and were free to do anything you wanted with your life, what would you do and who would you be?

Wow, this is a huge, packed question!

I find that this part of the challenge brings various thoughts flowing through my head…..

“Bianca, you’re a single mom of 4 children that are 13 and under.You don’t have that luxury of freedom”

“You need to live in the here and now, you can’t waste time dreaming. You have children to feed!”

“ Freedom to choose is not one of your options”

" I'ts just you, you don't have enough hours in the day to do it all"

Even though this is my reality, I snap back to think to myself; do I want more?

Do you want to beat the odds? Are you willing to put in the work? Answering in all honesty, I am ready to live the life I want! I want to take on the challenge to be an inspiration to other parents that feel they are stuck with no way out. To share the ability to show others that with a little elbow grease and a huge desire to live a better life, anything can be accomplished.

Back to the task, if I were free to do anything I choose, what would I do? I would help people pull out their creativity, what they are meant to share by helping them find their vision, to create blogs, produce vlogs, travel and most importantly, give back.

In the process,I would want to experience life and new people. I would love to meet the people that I have interacted with online and visit old friends.  My ideal day would encompass going to the destination of my choice, grabbing my laptop and cellphone to write articles while assisting clients. I would be the” go to bodacious chick” when someone needed direction. If someone just needed to find that point A, I would be the person that would help them get there.

In so doing, I would have created a lifestyle that allows me to attend school functions and sporting activities. I want to enjoy the flexibility of life while also being an example for my children.  I want to be and I want others to find living proof that life has endless possibilities and that it doesn’t have to be a cookie cutter life.

A life that you step up to create and claim!